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A New You?
Last week I read, SOMETHING BLUE, by Emily Giffin (I know, I’ve been on a Giffin kick lately).
And like the two Giffin books I read prior to this one, it made me think. About the plot (as it pertains to the story) as well as its place in real life.
First, I’ll give you the basic back jacket copy…
Darcy Rhone thought she had it all figured out: the more beautiful the girl, the more charmed her life. Never mind substance. Never mind playing by the rules. Never mind karma.
But Darcy’s neat, perfect world turns upside down when her best friend, Rachel, the plain-Jane “good girl,” steals her fiancé, while Darcy finds herself completely alone for the first time in her life . . . with a baby on the way.
Darcy tries to recover, fleeing to her childhood friend living in London and resorting to her tried-and-true methods for getting what she wants. But as she attempts to recreate her glamorous life on a new continent, Darcy finds that her rules no longer apply. It is only then that Darcy can begin her journey toward self-awareness, forgiveness, and motherhood.
And then there was this blurb on Giffin’s website that I thing is worth noting: ” SOMETHING BLUE is a novel about one woman’s surprising discoveries about the true meaning of friendship, love, and happily-ever-after. It’s a novel for anyone who has ever, even secretly, wondered if the last thing you want is really the one thing you need.”
Let’s consider that again. “It’s a novel for anyone who has every, even secretly, wondered if the last thing you want is really the one thing you need.”
So what do you think? Has there ever been a time in your life when you thought you wanted/didn’t want something in particular only to find out that it’s the one thing you regret most/should have reached for all along?
~Elizabeth
July 20th, 2010 at 10:00 am
I haven’t read any of the Emily Griffin books, but this one that you have blogged about seems like a very good read. Would you recommend this one or another one to start reading her books? I know she is a popular author, so there must be something to her writing. Thanks for the blog!
July 20th, 2010 at 10:03 am
Kelley,
I’ve read three of hers so far, with her most recent being my first (HEART OF THE MATTER). I say, start there. Though, you can get her earlier stuff in paperback (and, thus, cheaper).
July 20th, 2010 at 10:15 am
Please enter me in your contest. Love your books.
July 20th, 2010 at 10:16 am
That’s a hard one! I can think of something that my daughter wanted so desperately (a part, any part, in Les Mis) and didn’t get; it was so traumatic that it led to a crisis of faith as we cried together on the kitchen floor. All of her friends were cast, and she was left out and devastated. She was later named to be the costumer for the show, and is still heralded as the best the director has ever worked with; she also became friends with all the big stars, which would never have happened had she been cast in the chorus. Proves that all things work together for good… a convoluted way to look at your question, but I can make it fit in my own mind!
July 20th, 2010 at 10:25 am
Growing up in a single parent home, I wanted to get married so I could have the husband and 2.5 kids. As I got older with a few relationships and promise of marriage that was never fulfilled, I realized that being single worked best for me.
July 20th, 2010 at 10:28 am
To answer your question without a doubt, my biggest regret is not finishing school. I was going back when I met my husband, got married and had my daughter. Now almost 41 I keep thinking of going back, but haven’t the time or money to do so yet, so that is my biggest regret…
But, I have a beautiful daughter, so it all evens out
July 20th, 2010 at 10:31 am
Joni, that’s perfect! Sometimes it’s so hard to look for a silver lining while it’s raining. But eventually it shows itself. Do you think your daughter looks back on that experience now and sees the positive it ended up being??
Dru, I guess what’s meant to be, happens. Life has a way of shaking out the way it’s meant to, huh?
July 20th, 2010 at 10:33 am
Kelley, perhaps you have a talent (craft or otherwise) that could be pursued as a job?? I’m in awe of people who start businesses from scratch and make such huge successes of them!
July 20th, 2010 at 10:51 am
Yes, Kate did realize that what she got was better than what she wanted! The experience led her to try (and succeed at) different things, and even served as her college application essay. But after all these years (eight, I think), it stings for her. She knows in her head it was all good, but her heart still aches. And mine aches for her, which is the hard part about being a mother!
July 20th, 2010 at 12:25 pm
Me, married–with a family? Naw. Never gonna happen.
How grateful I am that God knew what I needed, even when I didn’t.
July 20th, 2010 at 4:59 pm
I had baby fever about thirteen years ago. When I lost Michael, I thought it was the end of the world. What I’ve found since then, althought it doesn’t replace that child, is so fulfilling, I can only say I’ve been blessed.
How to make God laugh… tell him your plans.
July 20th, 2010 at 9:07 pm
I have now added yet another book to my ever growing list
I am so glad that I can “talk” to fellow book lovers online. It is wonderful!